Wednesday, September 30, 2009

A Day to Remember.

From my dear friend, reflecting on passages
(and we've had quite a few this year.)



"Those I have loved, though now beyond my view,
have given form and quality to my being.
They have led me into the wide universe
I continue to inhabit, and their presence
is more to me than their absence."

-Rabbi Morris Adler



Forgive me for going all Hebrew on you... my spelling may be terrible, my pronunciation rough, but the sentiment is all there, from Psalm 90

"Limnot yamaynu kayn hoda v'navi l'vav khokh'mo."

In English...

Teach us to treasure our days, that we may open our hearts to your wisdom.

Amen.

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Love you Bodhi Tree!

Thanks for the terrific review for THE BARE MELCESSITIES...

"Stripped bare, with nothing but her honesty and a delightful sense of humor, Melanie Lutz blazes a trail through divorce to a new life filled with joy. She bravely shares her hard-earned wisdom with candor, offering support and inspiration to keep going when the next step seems impossible."

~ Jo Carey, Events Coordinator, Bodhi Tree Bookstore ~


I love me a stripped bare reference!

Buy a copy of The Bare Melcessities: Walking Out. Waking Up. Getting Bare. at Amazon.

"I Still Believe in Chasing Dreams and Placing Bets."

Barbra Streisand's new album is out... Love is the Answer buy a copy for yourself, and your friends. Here's to life, with new Streisand music!



Ms. Streisand says she prays a lot that her voice will still be there.

I think that's every artists prayer.

Monday, September 28, 2009

Yom Kippur for the Rest of Us!

Since I'm unofficially a quarter Jew, I feel blessed to be able to participate with my Jewish friends and family in many of their ceremonies.

Our friend Michael held a Spiritual retreat for Yom Kippur at Holmby Park in Bel Air today. It was a beautiful spot to cleanse the energy of the past, and rest in the oneness of spirit and community alongside the trees and the grass and the breeze all calling forth a joining, a unity and most importantly a clearing of that which we no longer have to carry.

V'ahavta I'rayakha ~ and you shall have love in your heart,
V'ahavta kamokha ~ for yourself and your friends,
V'ahavta ani hashem ~ to create a world of hope and peace,

I thought of all my friends, past and present, I thought of my family, I thought about the many people I have met as I travel through the world, I thought about a lot of things. But mostly, I thought about how grateful I am, grateful to be able to experience grace and humor and love, everyday.

Each of us finds our own way on the path of the peaceful spiritual warrior, "capable of wrestling with Life without being defeated by living."

This past year I have been the beneficiary of a huge mitzvot. The mitzvot of learning how to love myself by loving all of you, and I thank you.

Tomorrow is a new day, but for this moment, I wanted to honor and celebrate the truth...

We live in a world filled with love, and spirit and vitality.

I look forward to seeing what lays ahead.

much love,

Melanie

Sunday, September 27, 2009

"We're dealing with a lot of shit out here."

This is a shout out to my friend Michelle!

Tune in appropriately Southern dialect, very Daughters of the American Revolution, shaking fist in air... "FU men who aren't owning their crap" back to graceful, sweet, Southern airs... "Love you universe, for showing me the way!"

I always try to remember when weighing some tough decisions. There's always an answer to any question, you just need to listen.

"Candlesticks do indeed make a nice gift."

Thanks Robert Wuhl!

:Bull Durham written and directed by Ron Shelton:

Saturday, September 26, 2009

Scusa Me, But you see, That's Amore...

We've been in the middle of a fall heat wave, where the nights have been dreamy, and sensual and filled with possibilities.

Enjoy a little Dean Martin and remember "when you walk in a dream, but you know you're not dreaming, Senora.... That's Amore."



The world is definitely shinning!

If you are in Los Angeles this weekend, please enjoy the sweet Italian deliciousness of the Feast of San Gennaro!

Monday, September 21, 2009

It's getting better all the time!

Today's blast from the past describes exactly how I feel as I work away in Southern California's answer to the perfect Fall day...

A hundred degree heat wave... Surf is definitely up!

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Friday, September 18, 2009

Let There be Love!

Dean, Frank & Judy!

With a lead in of "Let there be Love," written by Lionel Rand and lyrics by Ian Grant to the fabulous "You're Nobody Till Somebody Till Somebody Loves you," written by Russ Morgan, Larry Stock, and James Cavanaugh.

There's nothing finer. Check out the irrepressible Dean Martin, the king of cool, Frank Sinatra and super nova Judy Garland doing their thing.



This is the very reason I love everyone!

Thursday, September 17, 2009

Tea for Two... And You for Me...

"Tea for two and two for tea. me for you and you for me... Can't you see know how happy we could be."

This lovely song from 1925's No, No, Nanette was written by Vince Youmans and Irving Caesar.


: Doris Day sings Tea for Two:

Great lyrics~

Just tea for two
And two for tea
Just me for you
And you for me...alone-

Picture you upon my knee
Just tea for two
And two for tea
Just me for you
And you for me alone

Can't you see how happy we would be...

Aghh... romance, and the simplicity of a cup of afternoon tea.

It conjures warmth and compassion, one of our favorite afternoon rituals.

Check out The Art of Tea at UCLA's Fowler.

Simply delightful.

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

The Jungle Book Song that started it all!

:The Bare Necessities has been viewed on youtube over 4.5 million times:

That's some truth.

Check out my book...

The Bare Melcessities: Walking out. Waking up. Getting bare. at amazon.com or bn.com.

A first in Mel book history! The Bare Mel's beach promo!

Melanie Lutz's The Bare Melcessities Beach promo from Melanie Lutz on Vimeo.

:Melanie Lutz's The Bare Melcessities: Walking out. Waking up. Getting bare.:

This was shot looking out across the great pacific ocean, and to me, what fall in California is all about!

Thanks Mother Earth for all the help.

You can buy the book at amazon.com or bn.com.

Monday, September 14, 2009

Vinyl Rules!

The Archive from Sean Dunne on Vimeo.


A life's work. A beautiful vision. An unfinished story...

The week's Smug Alert!

Backlash over Kanye at VMA...


Like we all haven't made some incredibly unsmooth moves...

Don't get me started!

True Love Always Looks The Same!



Keep your heart open.

Saturday, September 12, 2009

Best Picture Yet!


Bare Mel Bookcase
Originally uploaded by Love Everyone
We love seeing all the ways people use their book cases.

What's on your shelf... send us a picture and we'll post away~!

Man's Eternal Quest...



Beauty. Romance. Nature. Majesty.

What was it again?

Friday, September 11, 2009

Poetry Party!




Angela Monet ~ "those who danced were thought to be quite insane by those who could not hear the music."

Wednesday, September 09, 2009

A Self Portrait...



This is the image that started the journey, ultimately becoming a chapter in my first book. The Bare Melcessities.

Here's a tiny excerpt...

"Unexpectedly my personal snap shot revealed tons. It was a final key to the locked personal puzzle. A key that allowed me to untangle and supplant my mania. I manufactured a self portrait, and it became a tool that helped me. The individuality of this step toward self understanding laid bare a truth. Your picture of yourself is not how others see you. I was not what I had been telling myself."

To read more... buy the book.

You never know how or when inspiration is going to strike.

Always, look closer.


:Hollywood Boulevard loves Melanie Lutz's The Bare Melcessities:

Tuesday, September 08, 2009

An Amazing Labor Day Weekend.


Hannah in the Pool
Originally uploaded by Love Everyone
It was an enchanted end of summer, filled with friends, family and some quality swim time.

Tales from Mobile Mel.

There's no doubt, when you get out and about, the world is a most beautiful place filled with beautiful people. People who have something to share. People who are inspiring because they were inspired and carried it forward. These amazing people live and breath in the fabric of the worlds cities and towns large and small. We celebrate them...

Tales from Mobile Mel will share some of the memorable stories and lessons learned from these extraordinary individuals. From doctors, to house cleaners, to bakers, and business men, to the homeless guy on the bus. Everyone has something to offer to the conversation.

DOCTOR HEAL THYSELF ~ (FROM THE ISLAND OF KAUAI)

In a small historic church on the beautiful island in the pacific one bright Sunday morning, a retired silver haired gentleman stood up during the sharing section of the service, and told a story. It was a simple story. A story of recognition and action.

This stately man talked of being forced to retire from his medical practice, a busy successful doctor told to "Go. Enjoy yourself, travel, see the world, you've earned it."

He did for awhile, but nothing brought him the joy he felt when he was active and productive in his work. He resigned himself into what he considered would be boring musings through the sunset of his life, as winter approached he and his wife sun birded to South Carolina.

It was there in a church very much like the one we were all standing in that he found himself, on a Sunday, listening.

A woman stood up in the congregation, "I've been diagnosed with a life threatening disease. I don't have insurance, and I don't know what I'm going to do. I have two small children I'm raising myself. No family. Nothing. What am I going to do?"

As the words of her story washed over him, he remembered his own childhood, his Dad was a minister and his Mom a teacher, and he grew up scraping alongside seven siblings. They all used to sit around the dinner table and his Dad would ask, "what have you done for someone today?" If he had something to say, to contribute, he would get an extra piece of chicken, dessert, something. What have you done for someone today? Pretty simple. As the thought spilled into his head, as the challenge stirred, as the voice filtered in. he said, "I noticed something. I noticed the gifts I had been given and I noticed how little it took for me to feel down and out and powerless."

As the realization hit him he said, "I found myself standing up, words busting out of my mouth, and, I knew, in my heart... I would be getting dessert."

This man offered his surgical services, free of cost, to that woman, and asked if anyone else in the congregation of retirees would join him. Without hesitation multiple hands went up, a retired anesthesiologist, a surgical nurse, a local hospital administrator, every one necessary to provide the health care service this woman needed.

That one action of standing up led to a movement.

It was the beginning of VOLUNTEERS IN MEDICINE. Free health care for people who can’t afford it. from a volunteer group of retirees.

He took two problems, the inability for working folks to see a doctor when they were sick, crowding emergency rooms, and an untapped resource, bored, sometimes cranky, retired medical professionals, highly skilled retirees with time to give something back. He had a notion, a notion that he wasn't alone. He bet there were plenty of people like himself, retired, who would want to give back, on a part time basis. At the time the un-insured in SC was one of the highest of any state in the country.

As he stood there, in that Kauai church, smiling broadly, "it seemed like a marriage to me."

Amazing, that one inkling of inspiration led to one of the largest private health care reforms in this country. Today every person who lives or works in their community in South Carolina has access to health care. All from a dude standing up in church and saying, "YES! and, who's with me!"

It has become a model in many cities and communities around the country.

Their motto is --
‘May we have eyes to see those who are rendered invisible and excluded, open arms and open hearts to reach out and include them, healing hands to touch their lives with love, and in the process heal ourselves.’

Indeed.

What have you done for someone today?




Monday, September 07, 2009

Labor Day = Love Fest!

No Labor. All Love.



Spread the word!

lots of love,

Melanie

Thursday, September 03, 2009

Launch Party Fabulous!


:Melanie Lutz's The Bare Melcessities book release launch party:

We kicked it off in high style!

Thanks to Wallman Public Relations and all the ladies of the Italian Girls Night Out group for making it such a special evening!

Let the sharing commence....

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The Bare Melcessities:

Walking out. Waking up. Getting Bare.
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